This is especially kasaetcya men: the words 'we need to talk' they perceive as a declaration of war. Confided to men: the words of a woman means that she threw in the towel and wants peace talks. During the negotiations: Husbands: Do not say: 'You do not respect me. " It is better to say: "I feel your contempt. Maybe something in my actions prompting you to think about what I do not love you? " If she confirms it and say, 'I'm sorry I kept you feel unloved. What can I do to you satisfied my love? " Check with her, in which moments of your life together, it does not feel loved.
Think about how you can fix these issues I can assure you, if you did so, my wife will be wildly happy. And if 'It would be nice, then you will be pleased' Wives: Never say, 'You do not love me. " It is better to say: 'I felt unloved. Maybe in my actions or words, you feel a lack of respect? " If he confirms it, say: 'I'm sorry that you felt as if I do not respect you. What can I do to make you convinced of the opposite 'Ask your husband what in the moments it seems that you do not show him respect. Think about how you can fix these moments.
And then do it. If your husband feels self-respect from you – he move mountains. The results show disrespect women to men when they feel aversion and dislike men showed dislike and aggression when they feel disrespect. This vicious circle can only break it open elucidation and demonstration of acceptance. More Emerson Egger 'Love and Respect' Summary woman needs to satisfy only one desire – to be loved. When this need is satisfied, she is happy. A man has only one need – respect. When his demand is satisfied, he is happy. When both those needs filled, start amazing things happen. 'Love and Respect' spouses explains why they react negatively to each other how to cope with such a response quickly and easily. You can download it on the 'network path' in the 'Educational materials' Yours, Lola Pirhal